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So ... you have what looks like a set up. "Just one more bar" "Just wait for the close" "Wait for this indicator to align" "Watch for the next to align" "Ensure this filter shows ‘green lights go’" But by the time everything lines up The move has gone. The horse has bolted You fumble to enter - all fingers and thumbs You ‘feel’ like you’re chasing Perhaps the moment has passed. Flummoxed - you wonder - what the heck happened here? Feel familiar? The search for absolute certainty shows up in subtle ways: Emotions: Anxiety builds. A conflict between wanting to act and restraining the impulse. Applying self control with will … but the body and mind unsettled. Thoughts: Endless “what if” scenarios. What if I miss it. What if it goes without me What if I just try and get ahead of this at a better price Physical Cues: Tension rises in the body showing up as a hand hovering over the mouse, heart rate climbing - eyes fixated on the screens, backside glued to the seat (for fear of missing it). If you’ve ever experienced this, you may recognise it as feeling cautious or disciplined. In the pursuit of being disciplined and true to your rules you feel out of alignment and hesitant. Markets are uncertain by nature. If we choose to engage with uncertainty, then surely the job is to create a sense of certainty within ourselves. The question is how do you do this currently? A coping mechanism that might help: Breathe. Centering your breath is one of the most under rated and effective ways to calm ones nervous system. Reframe your entry as a probability, not a verdict. Before you click, remind yourself: This trade doesn’t have to be certain, it just has to meet my criteria. Then execute and let the outcome be data - not proof of your worth. Adopt the mantra… ‘ This is one trade in a 1000’ Cultivate the state of certainty in uncertain environments one trade at a time.

Context : Daily Chart ETHUSD. Uptrend intact. Price sitting right on the trend line. Price consolidating into a series of dojis. Imagine this scenario. You have a plan. You're a trend trader. You're looking to get long. You start to observe the context… We’re into September. Tech showing signs of correcting. Gold heading up. This chart... right here, right now is consolidating. And so you experience a little flicker. A small niggle … There it is. The voice of doubt. "I should get long but maybe this is the one that gives way". You feel a moment of indecision. And you’re stuck frozen The human version of a doji. Indecision has a cost and takes a toll. Not just in lost opportunity BUT in energy and confidence. A simple practice to help guard against this: Pre-decide the conditions. Write down before you enter what tells you to stay in and what tells you to step aside. Separate the signal from the noise. Notice the flicker of doubt, but act on your plan, not the passing thought. Doubt will always show up. The edge comes from knowing what you’ll do when it does.

A trader frames an idea: BTC Daily Uptrend Looking for reasons to frame a low risk idea for a long, wanting to get into uptrend resumption Drops down to the 4hr Notices buyers coming back … or at the minimum the sellers pause Enters with a tight stop for a healthy return to risk ratio Stop set. Risk defined. Plan in place. Price goes against Trader shifts the stop down What is going on here? It’s all too easy to do. Many of us have been here before. Stop in place. Target set. Everything mapped. Then the market nudges against you … You might tell yourself “this is just ‘noise’”. You convince yourself that ‘they’ are just going to pick you off. and suddenly you’re “adjusting.” Move the stop just a little. Pull the target closer. Bend the rules you swore you’d follow. And it feels ‘right’ in the moment. Like you’re managing risk. But what’s happening here is that You are attempting to control your own discomfort. And in so doing - you enter the slippery slide of losing self control. It’s subtle but it starts like this. If the trade works out - you might feel justified in having moved your stop and therein starts a pattern of rule breaking. If the trade does not work out - you might beat yourself up and undermine confidence in yourself and your process 🧠 A simple thing that might help guard against this: Before the trade, write down the one level you will respect. Write it in a journal. Annotate it on the chart. Use the TradingView long position / short position tool. Even saying it out loud locks it in. That tiny ritual makes it much harder to justify shifting things mid-trade. The market will do what it does. The only thing you truly control is whether you keep your word to yourself. Commit to the stop when you commit to the trade Live to trade another day.

Let’s be honest: your biggest losing trades over the last month were those you didn’t take when you ought to have done. Your finger hovered over the button. Heart racing. Logic said yes, fear whispered no. And you froze. I’ve seen this in every kind of trader, from retail accounts to fund managers running millions. Hesitation doesn’t discriminate. It’s rarely about your system. It’s about the self: The memory of the last loss still echoing. Second-guessing your judgment. Fear of being wrong. The hardest trade isn’t with the market. It’s with your own mind in the moment of decision. If this resonates, hit follow for more.Let me know what you're struggling with and I'll do my best to address concerns, tips and practices I use myself. I've been doing this for a long time and recognise that it's not as easy as it looks at times. It's not all about strategy and tools - it's about making sure we're resilient, robust and calibrated to execute our strategies as intended. If you follow me here, I will know that I'm reaching people in the community that can do with a helping hand. I appreciate your support.